Change is good, isn’t it? That’s what people tell you. Most of the things that change are good but what about the things that are not? The things you loved about you have changed.
What should you do now? How did it happen to you? These are the questions you think about.
Sometimes change is to the extent where you don’t even recognize yourself. You would want your old version back because you loved those good things about you. You might end up getting angry but ask yourself, will it make everything alright?
Decisions you make in your life affect the way you are. Choices that you made earlier have completely taken over your mind unknowingly.
As the Chinese proverb goes by,
You sow a thought, you reap an action.
Reap an action, you sow a habit.
Sow a habit, you reap a character.
Sow a character, you reap your destiny.
You need to sit, clear your mind, close your eyes and calmly think about the things that have changed. Thinking might make you angry because old memories which you locked in your mind will open.
So what’s the perfect fix?
Nobody knows but atleast thinking on it and knowing the facts might help you. You might figure out why the things turned out the way they did and find out a way to return to your good old self.
As Heraclitus quoted,
The only thing that is constant is change.
It means you can’t avoid the change. So, make your decisions wisely because it changes you for a long term. You can definitely try to be aware of the situation and understand them before the best things about you are changed. Open your mind. Guide it. Be happy.
Yes, change is good. But even when it changes the best things about you?
Think about it.
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